Son of the Ferg

Brotherly Love

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Since Monica’s morning commute is longer than mine, the task of dropping off and picking up the children from day care falls to me.  I’ve got the routine down to a science aided in no small part by the television and the gate that locks the kids into the family room.  The second to last step in the process of getting them out the door in the morning is brushing their teeth.  By this point, I’ve already gotten them dressed, fed the cats, cleaned the litter box, gotten their bags together, packed my lunch, and brushed my own teeth.  It is at this time that I turn the TV off and usher them upstairs.  On Monday, we ran into a bit of an issue.

It started out normal, with Parker running upstairs and disappearing into the kitchen.  Oliver’s response to my request to go brush his teeth was to collapse on the floor.  I picked him up while he made angry faces at me.  He was playing and quickly broke and laughed as he made each subsequent face.  Once I got him to the living room, I put him down because he’s almost four and he can walk.  He collapsed once again.  

I took this opportunity to nab Parker and bring him upstairs.  On the way, I made sure to point out to Oliver that I would just brush Parker’s teeth first.  That got him moving, although not all that fast.  By the time he made it up to the bathroom, I had positioned Parker on the counter next to the sink.  Oliver insisted on opening the door to the bathroom and turning on the light even though those things were already done, so he shut the light off and closed the door.  Being that I’m petty and I sometimes do things to mess with my children, I turned the light back on before he could open the door.  Oliver saw this and turned it off again just so he can turn it on.  These are the kinds of things you get to deal with when you have children.

I was now getting Parker’s toothbrush ready.  Oliver was annoyed because Parker was sitting in his spot.  He climbed on his step stool positioned between the counter and the toilet, then the toilet, then tried to squeeze his way onto the counter next to Parker.  I told him that there was not enough room for both of them and that he should wait his turn.  This fell on deaf ears.  

I then started to brush Parker’s teeth by grabbing the kid in a sort of headlock so he’ll stay still enough for me to do the job.  While I’m doing this, Parker looks straight ahead into the mirror and in one fluid motion, pushes his brother clean off the counter.  It happened so fast.  One second Oliver was sitting there and the next he simply wasn’t.

It’s times like these that I’m faced with an internal struggle.  On the one hand, my son just fell and hurt himself.  He’s crying.  As his father, I should comfort him.  On the other hand, that was hilarious.  So now I have to make him feel better while holding back my laughter which is no easy task.  I did make sure to point out that if he just listened to me in the first place and waited his turn, he would not be in this predicament.

Christmas Aftermath and New Year Shenanigans

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As 2016 came to a much needed close, I had every intention of writing a blog post a day in 2017, akin to what I did in 2008, however this time they would be about my kids.  Each post would feature something they did or said that amused or annoyed me as a way to chronicle their lives.  Here I am writing this on January 4th, having already failed at this task.  Instead, maybe I’ll try to do this every week to have a bit more of a flexible goal.  I’d like to write more here because I greatly enjoy doing so and people seem to like it when I write about the weird and funny things my kids do, so I will continue to exploit them for my own personal gain.  Speaking of which, be sure to check out our Loot Crate unboxing videos over at HorrorTalk.

 

So what have my kids been up to?  Mainly it’s been playing with the variety of toys they got for Christmas.  Oliver’s favorites include his blue lightsaber (although he’s also partial to his brother’s red one), which he’s been whipping open repeatedly.  It’s only a matter of time before that flies out of his hands and breaks something.  Who knows?  Maybe it’ll go out a window after all.  He’s also partial to the toy microphone that Monica’s parents got him.  It records and plays back your voice, so he’s been saying “Poop” into it over and over again so he can hear himself say it.  That’s my boy.

 

Parker has been somewhat indifferent to the toys, picking up things here or there to play with them when he feels like it.  He takes cues from his brother, often following him around or grabbing a toy that Oliver has put down.  This become problematic when Oliver realizes Parker has taken something he was recently playing with and demands it back.  They’ll figure out how to share sooner or later, I guess.  Or not at all and they’ll just continue fighting.  He’s been obsessed with the book, Brown Bear, Brown Bear What Do You See? lately.  Our copy has these little windows that slide out to reveal the next animal.  He’s been all over that book.

 

The Ballad of the Blue Lightsaber

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As mentioned on a recent episode of Raging Nerdon, Christmas is now all about my children.  I don’t really need or want anything aside from maybe an Amazon gift card.  Instead, I’m focused on my kids and what they want for the holiday.  While Parker is still too young to ask for anything, Oliver is now at the age where he can create something resembling a wishlist.  This is fortunate as we struggled for a bit as to what to get him this year.  At one point I had him go through the Toys R Us book to pick out things that he wanted.  This backfired because he went page by page, circling at least one thing on each one.  After circling an Xbox One controller, I asked him what that was and he had no idea.  He was just circling things that looked interesting.

There was one item that he asked for non-stop.  Every time we asked Oliver what he wanted for Christmas, the one and only answer was a blue lightsaber.  For months he’d roll up a piece of paper or pick up a stick and call it a lightsaber.  I have no earthly idea how he became so obsessed with the Jedi weapon as the boy has never seen Star Wars or any of the spinoff TV shows.  His knowledge probably comes from other kids at day care talking about it…or the Force is strong in this one.

I actually tried to show him Episode IV a few weeks back.  He made it about forty minutes in before throwing in the towel.  The entire time he was asking where Darth Vader was.  He did pick up a working knowledge of most of the main characters, including Princess Leia, whom he brought to day care for show-and-tell for the letter L.

With the lightsaber a safe bet for a Christmas gift, I ordered him one from Amazon, along with a red one for Parker.  I realize that I’m almost to the point where I’ll have to buy two of everything.  That will probably come next year.  The lightsabers arrived and we hid them away safely where the kids wouldn’t stumble upon them.  Oliver even went to see Santa and told the big man himself that he wanted a blue lightsaber.  Everything looked good.

Then, out of the blue, the color changed.  After playing with one at Target, Oliver proclaimed that he now wanted a green lightsaber.  This panicked me because I didn’t want a blow up or something on Christmas morning after I had already secured a blue one.  I asked Oliver what he would do if he got a blue lightsaber, given that he told Santa that’s what he wanted.  His reply?  “I’ll throw it out a window.”  That’s right.  My kid does not mince words.  He wanted a green one and that was that.

Fortunately, this green phase passed a week or two before Christmas.  He frantically opened all his presents that morning except for the lightsaber.  I had hid that one to save it for last.  I wanted him and Parker to open them at the same time, but Parker was lagging behind in the present opening and Oliver was starting to mope a bit thinking he had opened everything and didn’t get a lightsaber.  I took out the gift and he’s been swinging the thing around ever since.  He’s basically popping the lightsaber open, collapsing it again, and then repeating the process over and over again.  What’s the over / under of him losing his grip on it and sending it through the window after all?

Show and Tell Presents a Slew of New Challenges

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Oliver has officially entered pre-school and with it comes new challenges and obstacles.  He’s fully potty trained (THANK GOD) and learning to write his name.  Once a week, he gets to bring something into class for show and tell.  There’s a catch though.  Every week is a specific letter so he has to bring in something that starts with that letter.  Being that he’s my son, I’ve encouraged him to bring in nerdy stuff instead of your average items.  For B, he brought in a bat Halloween decoration that flapped its wings.  For C, he went in with a C is for Cthulhu plush and book, much to the dismay of his teachers who struggled to pronounce anything in it.

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Each week, Monica and I frantically search for options for Oliver to bring in.  Show and Tell is on Tuesdays so we really have one night to really think about it.  Sure, we could plan this farther in advance, but who does that?  (The answer to that question is Monica.  She does that and we’ll get to that in a bit.)  This week’s letter was I.  We struggled with this one.  Ice cream?  Iceman?  I got nothing.  In desperation, I went downstairs to look through a box of my old action figures the kids have taken over.  I take one quick glance down and realize how stupid we’ve been.  I shout up to Monica “We’re idiots.”  She replies “That starts with I!” Grimacing, I point out that we had forgotten the most popular super hero that starts with the letter I.  Iron Man.  How could we forget this?  Oliver dressed up as Iron Man for Halloween a couple weeks ago.  I’m disappointed in myself.

 

Anyway, I pulled out a few Iron Man toys and Oliver picked one out to bring with him, specifically the Hulk Buster Iron Man.  I have about six different versions from the incredibly cheesy 1994 cartoon.  We also told Oliver that if he was good, he could wear his Iron Man costume to school.  So, the next morning, I drop Oliver off and the other kids stood there, mouths agape.  How come he got to wear his costume?  Why couldn’t I wear my costume?  It was then I realized that I’m the cool parent.  I let my kid wear his Halloween costume to school, albeit with a tie-in to show and tell.  Oliver wore the thing the entire day.  He was still wearing it when I picked him up later that day too.

One of Life’s Great Mysteries: Solved

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It’s 4 AM when I’m awoken by a familiar sound: the creak of Oliver’s door slowly opening.  Yes, this is a creepy noise to hear in the middle of the night, but as it’s one I hear frequently, I’ve grown used to it.  I close my eyes and hope that he’s just going to use the bathroom.  No such luck on that front as I then hear the pitter-patter of his small feet as he makes his way into my bedroom.  Again, I have a small hope that maybe he just wants to come into bed with us and then we can all go back to sleep.  After all, I’d already been up frequently with Parker so maybe, just maybe, we could all just get a few more winks in.  Again, I’m nowhere near that lucky.  Instead, I’m told something that I can honestly say I’ve never heard uttered by another human being.  I could be weird and say that my three year old son was speaking in tongues or something along those lines.  No, the truth is strange on its own and far more humorous.

“I can’t find my pants.”

That’s right.  At 4 AM, my young son woke up and came into my bedroom to tell me that he’s lost his pants.  I’m immediately filled with questions.  How did he lose his pants?  Where could they have gone?  When did he lose them?  Why did he take them off in the first place?  I ask him one of these questions.

“Oliver.  It’s 4 o’clock in the morning.  How did you lose your pants?”

“I can’t find my pants.”

With a deep sigh, I get up out of bed and walk him back to his room.  He’s clad in his t-shirt and underwear.  Once we’re back in his bedroom, I pick up the flashlight on his dresser and shine it around to quickly find the missing pants, wedged between his bed and the wall.  I help him put them back on, tuck him in, turn the flashlight off, and then walk back to my room.  Fortunately, he went right back to sleep and stayed that way for another hour or two.

Being a parent is weird and I’m sure I’ll be faced with tough questions as my two kids get older.  I’ll have to explain death and the birds & the bees.  For now, I can be satisfied knowing that when my son loses his pants, I can solve that mystery.

I Almost Peed on My Son

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I’m not burying the lead with this blog post.  We’re going to get right into it because there’s no other way to tell this story than by starting with that headline.  The other day, I almost peed on my son, specifically Parker, the one year old.  First, some background information for you.  Since Monica and I have had our own place, I have peed with the door open.  It’s my house and it’s my bathroom, so that’s it.  I can’t explain why I feel so entitled as to urinate with an open door.  It doesn’t make me feel special or anything.  It’s not as if the act of closing the door behind me is cumbersome or difficult.  Before you ask, yes, I close the door when company is around.

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This habit was only slightly curtailed when I had kids and then only when they started moving around on their own.  Plus, it helped a bit when Oliver was potty training (which is an entire other blog post) to understand that everyone else used the toilet.  I could sneak off for a minute to go take a leak while Oliver was otherwise occupied in the next room with toys or the TV.  I do not have that luxury with Parker.  If Oliver was a handful, Parker is a dump truck of mischief.  The kid gets into anything and everything and he’s friggin’ fast.  He’s climbing on stuff and crawling / walking every where.  He also seems interested in stuff that Oliver never was, such as the toilet.

 

This brings us back to the subject of this blog post.  The other day I get home with the kids.  They’re playing upstairs.  I’ve got a gate up to prevent Parker from falling down the stairs.  This allows the kids to play in either or both of their rooms freely.  I go into the bathroom through my bedroom and leave the door open behind me.  This is something I’ve done a million times.  Just as I start peeing, Parker is closing in quick.  He’s crawling in his little Gollum style, with his left leg up and his right leg down in the traditional crawl pose.  I’m in mid stream when he’s suddenly between my legs, grasping the edge of the toilet to pull himself to a standing position.  By this point I’m screaming “NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!” and trying to tuck my junk back in my pants while also avoiding peeing on my young son’s head.  This is easier said than done but I’m happy to report that he got away dry.  I then picked up him, put him outside the bathroom, closed the door, and finished my business.  I’m sure I’ll receive a therapy bill for this traumatic experience some time in the future.  Sorry kid.  I guess I’ll start closing the door more often.

Drool is the Most Disgusting Bodily Fluid

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My youngest son Parker is now 9 months old.  Between him and Oliver I’ve cleaned up my fair share of urine, feces, vomit, and more snot than should be possible to come out of a child’s nose.  The most disgusting of these bodily fluids by far is drool.  It’s unlike any of the others in that it’s almost impossible to entirely get rid of it.  A drip of the stuff can get on your hand or shirt and it just won’t go away even if you wipe away at it countless times.  There have been several instances where I’ll get to work hours after dropping my kids off at day care only to look down and find that there’s an obvious drool stain on my shirt.  It’s par for the course really.

Look at this adorable little drool machine.

Look at this adorable little drool machine.

The consistency of drool is what makes it so nasty.  It’s almost oily in texture, allowing it to slide freely from surface to surface, without you noticing at first.  No amount of tissues, bibs, and burp cloths can keep the tide at bay.  Speaking of bibs, they are a must-have at this point in Parker’s life.  He needs to be in one at all times because the drool just keeps coming.  If I forget to put on one, his chest is drenched within minutes.  Even when he’s wearing a bib, that thing gets soaked so quickly.  I’ll pick him up and suddenly get slapped with a piece of wet cloth…only it’s not wet from water…it’s wet with the saliva of my infant son.

You basically just have to try to keep up with the waterfall of spit that’s coming out of the kid’s mouth.  Bibs help that.  Having tissues nearby is a good backup plan.  We were out today and I had neither so I sort of used his arm to wipe it up, like an older person would do.  Just use your sleeve, right?  He didn’t mind.

In related news, I’ve found that Parker really loves it when I toss him up in the air.  I was always cautious of this with Oliver because I thought I’d break him or something.  That caution is all but gone with the second kid.  I haven’t dropped him or anything, but I’ve definitely been throwing him up in the air a lot more.  He’s got a huge smile on his face the entire time too.  You might see where this story is going.  One evening I was sitting in my reclining chair, casually tossing the kid up and catching him.  He’s giggling and smiling.  Everything is great.  Then I toss him up once more.  I catch him and at that moment, the drool breaks free from the dam that is his mouth.  Gravity pulls it towards the earth, straight down…and into my mouth.

Despite my instant revulsion, I didn’t just throw my infant son across the room.  I immediately moved him to the side and started spitting into a nearby burp cloth.  It was gross.  It was the grossest encounter with baby bodily fluids I’d ever had at that point.  (I’ve since had a worse one, but that’s a story for another day.)  That hasn’t stopped me from playing with my kids though, nor should it.  This kind of stuff is just part of being a parent.  It’s something that someone — a doctor, an elder, anyone really — should tell you about.  There’s a good chance your kid is going to drool right into your mouth.  You’re going to get poop on your hands.  You’ll get peed on.  Boogers will be wiped all over you.  Just hope none of them puke in your mouth / face.  I’ve managed to avoid that up until now.

Poop is the New Immovable Object

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Please note: This entire post is about poop.  If you don’t want to read about that, skip this one.  I’m being completely serious.  This is all about crap.

We’re currently trying to potty train Oliver.  He’s 2.5 years old and knows what the toilet is, but he’s not a huge fan of using it.  There are times where he’s clearing shitting his pants (you can tell because he has this weird strained face and he’s standing in the corner), but when asked if he can sit on the potty, he refuses.  So, we’re still buying diapers in bulk which are crazy expensive, especially when you consider the fact that my son is literally going to piss and crap all over these things before I throw them in the garbage.

If you actually read the instructions for diapers, they tell you to dispose of solid waste in a toilet before throwing in the garbage.  I can tell you that we never did that.  Why would you want to scoop out the kid’s crap when you can toss the whole thing?  The less contact with poop, the better, in my opinion.  The thing though is that with Oliver potty-training, we are trying to show him what he should be doing and that includes poop going into the toilet, so we’ve had to do this a few times.

Here’s something else that no one tells you: A toddler’s poop is shaped strangely.  You have an idea in your head as to what poop looks like, right?  It’s like a cylinder.  That’s how it comes out when it goes directly into the toilet.  When a kid craps into a diaper, it doesn’t end up that way.  It molds around the walls of the diaper, like a horrible version of PlayDoh, creating a big solid mass of fecal matter.

This was the case earlier this week when Oliver insisted on transferring his dump from a diaper into the toilet.  Monica was handling this whole transaction while I was preparing dinner.  Then I got a call.  I was beckoned downstairs because there was a plumbing problem and I’m the dad, so that means it’s my problem.  I entered the bathroom to find a solid piece of crap wedged in the bottom of the toilet.  It was as if someone had placed the worst smelling candle in my commode.  Apparently Monica and Oliver had flushed a few times and that thing just was not moving.  It had taken up residency in the bottom of the toilet and it was not being evicted any time soon.  Water was flowing around it fine, so it wasn’t blocking up the pipes or anything.  It was just hanging out, like a decoration in a fish tank.

I stared at this dumbfounded.  What was I expected to do here?  I know what to do when the toilet is clogged.  The plunger can just unclog that sucker.  This wasn’t so much of a clog as an obstruction.  Would it dissolve over time?  What if we just flushed the toilet a lot?  Should I look this up on the Internet?  Is there a video on YouTube showing what to do here?

After laughing hysterically at how ridiculous this situation was, I ended up knocking the thing around with the plunger so it eventually went down the drain.  Oliver is still in diapers and we have not thrown any other poop into the toilet since.

Sometimes Kids are Assholes

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Oliver is 2 years old now.  He’s not quite 2 and a half, but he’s getting there.  A few months back, he developed what is perhaps the most annoying habit in the entire world.  This sweet, adorable, loving little boy will occasionally and without warning, scream at the top of his tiny lungs while smiling his cute little face off.  Just to clarify what I mean by this, it’s more of a shriek than a scream.  It’s a high pitched, ear splitting noise that pierces your very soul.  No place or time is off limits to this either.  He could be in acceptable places like a large outdoor playground or a field or in a crowded supermarket or, my personal…whatever the opposite of favorite is…the car.

We had a long car ride home yesterday from Monica’s family reunion upstate.  Parker was sleeping soundly and we figured that Oliver would conk out so we’d have a peaceful ride.  No such luck.  Oliver was up the entire way back, screaming like a madman.  Despite us trying everything we could possibly think of to stop him from doing this short of stuffing a sock in his mouth, he kept gleefully doing it.  It got to the point that Parker woke up and was crying.  To paint this mental picture for you, we’ve got Oliver shrieking, Parker crying, Monica trying to soothe them both, and me driving with gritted teeth, hoping to get home as fast as possible so I can get the hell out of that car and perhaps jump out of a window.

We got home and I dragged Oliver upstairs, changed him into his pajamas, threw him in bed, and then went to unload the car.  Meanwhile, he was clearly not tired, so he proceeded to get up and yell for me at the top of the stairs.  After taking a minute to calm down, I went up there, put him back in bed, tucked him in, and then closed the door.  This set him off on a fit, despite the fact that he told me to leave and to close the door.  Kids can’t make up their minds.  I let him cry it out for a few minutes before going in there and calmly tucking him in again.  I sat with him for a little while and it was like everything was totally normal.  He was my sweet little boy again and all was right in the world.  All of the aggravation I had built up during the car ride washed away.  Here was my son, curled up in bed, clutching his teddy bear under his Spider-Man blanket and he just wanted me to sit with him for a few minutes before he fell asleep.

That’s the thing about being a parent.  It can be the most rewarding, literally awesome thing in the entire world one minute and the next, it can be a terrifying, soul-crushing beast.  Despite this, I wouldn’t change a thing.  The good far outweighs the bad. Just know that some day I will not only wake my son up in the middle of the night just to hang out, but I’ll also be sure to shriek at an inopportune time in his life.  Maybe at his high school graduation or his wedding day.  Dad doesn’t forget, buddy.

And Then There Were Two

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A little more than two weeks ago, I became a dad again.  Parker Maxwell Ferguson was born on Saturday, June 13th at 10:47 PM.  This is the story of his arrival.

 

After going through this twice, I can report that women tend to get to a point in their pregnancy where they just want it to be over.  They’re really uncomfortable and agitated about it and they have every right to be.  They are creating life after all.  Monica reached that point in this pregnancy around the beginning of May.  She wasn’t due until June 22nd.  She went to the doctor for a routine visit on Thursday, June 11th.  The doctor said that she would definitely go to full term.  Two days later, as if both her and my soon-to-be-newborn son told the doctor “F You” her water broke.

 

This happened around 7 AM.  I was downstairs with Oliver when Monica came down and told me that she thought her water broke.  She eventually called the doctor who told her to come into the hospital around 1 PM.  In the meantime, she relaxed, went for a walk, took a shower, and ate lunch.  It was like every other day…except for the fact that liquid was literally leaking out of her.  Yes, that sounds gross, but how did you think the baby was going to come out?

 

She also called her parents who agreed to come down to watch Oliver.  This was a big concern for us because, depending on when the new baby came, we didn’t really know what to do with Oliver.  As a very temporary solution, he could come with us, but someone would have to pick him up.  If it was during the week, he’d be at daycare for most of the day.  As it turned out, this was probably the best possible situation.  It was the weekend.  Monica’s dad had just started vacation so he was available to come down.  It all lined up nicely.

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We got to the hospital around 1:30 after I took at least 2 wrong turns.  I can’t explain why this happened.  I’ve been to this hospital several times when we were taking various lamaze classes and whatnot but for some reason, I just totally spaced out on the ride over.  After getting into a room, the doctor confirmed that Monica’s water did indeed break.  As a result, we were stuck there.  She was officially admitted to the hospital as they won’t let you leave after the water is broken.

 

Monica was still mobile and not in much pain at this point.  Contractions were coming but not regularly and they weren’t too severe.  She was told to walk laps around the maternity ward for about an hour.  This helps shake things loose.  Again, if this sound gross, sorry.  That’s how these things work.  We set out for the walk while I was texting family and work folks.  While we were walking, I pointed out a white board with “Welcome to the Maternity Ward” written on it along with a number of names.  I assumed that these were the names of the new children that have been born.  Monica, being far smarter than me, noticed that 99% of the names were female and that was unlikely.  I think the one male name was a mysterious “Ray.”  On a later lap, the names were confirmed to be those of the maternity ward staff.  Then I instantly wondered if anyone heard me make fun of some of the names while we were walking by.

 

After about an hour walking, we returned to the room for another check.  I think this was around 4 PM by this point.  Things were progressing steadily.  We both rested a bit, Monica in the bed and me in this odd pleather chair / bed contraption.  This thing means well, but it’s an uncomfortable pain in the ass.  Now, I get that the chair in the labor and delivery rooms aren’t really a cause for concern in the minds of hospital staff.  After all, the men / guests aren’t the patients.  The important people are the pregnant women who are about to go through an insane experience and literally produce a human being.  Me being uncomfortable in a weird pull out bed is the least of their worries.  The way this thing was supposed to work was by pulling the bottom of the chair out and then folding the back down so it would turn into a sort of bed.  I didn’t figure this out right away so the bottom kept rolling out or the seat would slide forward while I was sitting on it.  I didn’t figure out the right way to use it for a few hours.  I should also note that this is the same type of chair that was there the last time we had a baby.

 

This next part gets a little hazy for me.  I’m not sure of the specific time frame, but I think we rested and hung out for about an hour or so.  At around 6, we were going to go for another walk, but the contractions were getting more intense, so Monica asked for the epidural.  This is a magic drug that comes down from the gods to numb pregnant women from the stomach down.  It doesn’t paralyze them, but they’re not too steady on their feet.  There is absolutely no shame in getting an epidural.  I can only imagine the pain of childbirth.  I’ve seen two of them and both times the epidural provides a very noticeable relief.  There are many women that don’t want to get one when it comes time to give birth.  Of those, a large chunk of them get it anyway.  Science!

 

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I was kicked out of the room while the anesthesiologist put in the epidural.  It goes in as a catheter into the spine so there’s a steady stream of the stuff to keep the pregnant woman comfortable.  I think what happened next was I checked in on Monica again and everything was OK.  She was going to rest for a little while as the drugs kicked in so I took the opportunity to go downstairs and get a bite to eat.  Not eating was a big mistake I made with Oliver’s birth, especially since that turned into a marathon.  I subsisted almost entirely on Famous Amos cookies.  I came prepared this time with a couple bananas, peanuts, cookies, and some granola bars, but I still needed some real food.  I got a mediocre chicken parm in the hospital cafeteria and promptly got sauce on my white t-shirt.  After I finished eating, I went back upstairs to find that the doctor was performing another check.  She now said that Monica would be having this baby tonight.

 

A quick note on this.  The doctor that said this was also the one that told Monica she would go to full term.  So what do we believe, lady?  Her estimate would actually get closer, claiming that the current nurse would see the baby born and her shift ended at 11 PM.  (To put this in perspective, we went through four different nurses during Oliver’s birth.  Their shifts are 12 hours long.  Woof.)

 

We basically hung out for a bit here.  Monica rested.  I read many comics on my tablet.  I read most of the pre-New 52 run of Batgirl starring Stephanie Brown and Red Robin featuring Tim Drake.  Both of them were pretty good, but I found Batgirl to be solid for the entire duration.  Now I see why people love that character so much.

 

Anyway, back to the baby.  The epidural didn’t work entirely.  There was this one spot on Monica’s hip that was throbbing in pain.  She got a booster with the epidural that helped a little bit but didn’t fix the issue.  This, coupled with a partially completed root canal that was not painful before, but began to throb like crazy, made for an unpleasant experience.  Fortunately, she didn’t have to deal with it nearly as long as the first time.

 

I think it was around 10 where things started heating up.  Monica was crazy dilated.  The baby had dropped into the -1 position (Look it up!).  It was go time.  The bed transformed into baby mode as Monica began pushing.  She actually had to stop for a sec so the doctor and the nurse could catch up.  It was happening pretty quickly.  Stirrups were popped out and her feet were propped up.  All of a sudden, the baby was right there.  Throughout this whole thing, I was at the head of the bed, holding Monica’s hand.  I was not going down to ground zero.  Let the professionals handle that.  I’d just be in the way and there’s a lot going on down there.  I got a peek down and saw the baby’s head.  After a few more pushes, the baby was out.  Just like that.  It happened.  Again, to put this in perspective, for Oliver’s birth, Monica pushed for a total of six hours.  Pushing is the part of labor that you always see in movies.  The woman is red faced and screaming and it’s a big hub-bub.  In reality, that phase of the labor should take up to a half hour, as was the case here.  Oliver was stubborn and didn’t turn the way he was supposed to so he just kind of got stuck until the doctor had to literally suck him out with a little vacuum.

 

Oh, I almost forgot.  With a flip of a switch, a large mirror descended from the ceiling.  This allowed Monica to see what was happening as she was pushing.  She found this very encouraging and helpful in the act.

 

Right after the baby came out, I had this moment of panic.  They don’t really come out kicking and screaming like in the movies.  Parker was rather still and a little purple.  All these horrible thoughts went through my head in that instant.  Was there something wrong?  What happened?  Oh no.  Then the doctor turned the kid around and everything was fine.  He let out a little cry but nothing huge.  The doctor let me cut the cord and then plopped the baby down on Monica’s stomach.  In the meantime, the doctor pulled out the placenta and showed it to us which I will admit was a little gross.  It’s basically a small sack of flesh, about the size of a deflated soccer ball.  It was like a show-and-tell.  Monica loved it.  In the final push to get that out, a gush of blood followed.  The doctor said something along the lines of “I don’t usually have my births look like a crime scene.”  That was when I looked down and saw the blood splatter just about everywhere.  It was all over the floor.  Dexter would have a field day in that room.

 

So, that’s how Parker Maxwell Ferguson came into the world.  He did so in less than half the time that Oliver did.  Parker was one inch shorter and one ounce bigger than Oliver was.

 

The next chapter is him meeting his big brother and how the two of them get along.

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